In my work with addiction and human development, I’ve observed that the compulsive behaviors we label as addictions are often rooted in unmet needs and unresolved traumas. Addiction is not simply about substances—it is a broader attachment to what soothes or protects us when life feels overwhelming. The NSFRW framework (Nurture, Security, Freedom, Responsibility, Worship) offers a powerful lens to understand this process, highlighting how we can become “addicted” to necessary phases of growth and the path we must take to integrate them into a balanced and fulfilling life.